So, after, more or less, 10 years together (including before marriage), my wife and I have separated. In the month since she's moved out, her behavior has lead me to declare myself single. This was actually the first decision I got to make in the entire event, and its an important one. Changing that perspective puts me in a position to rebuild my life (I have none, really) and become the person I want to be.
This will be my story.
Some of this will sound like (and probably be) venting and complaining, but I hope to mostly keep it to the stuff I do and changes I affect, and all that, and not as a "boy she's horrible" kind of thing (I promise nothing).